Dear Harlan:

What exactly do girls look for in a guy? Do they all just concentrate on looks, or do they value personality and intelligence? Which one is more important?

–Looking for a Girl

Dear Looking for a Girl:

Walk down the street and look at couples holding hands. You'll find the answer staring back at you. Some women want a man for his looks, and some want to fall in love. The more you can make a woman laugh and feel comfortable, the less she will be interested in looks. Most women want a man who can listen and talk to them. They want someone to share experiences and feel a deep connection with. Your job is simple — be as good-looking as possible and feel as good as possible. Then meet as many women as possible. Appreciate that some of these women will not want you and that others will want you. If you're this good-looking and feel this good about yourself, you will find women who want you. If you find that ALL women want you, make these women wait to see you without your clothes on. Then you'll find out if they want you for your mind or just for your body.

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