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NAKED ADVICE: Woman wants to seem approachable, but not desperate
Dear Harlan:
You tell women to make it easy for men to meet us. How can I become more approachable without looking desperate?
– Passive Not Aggressive
Dear Passive Not Aggressive:
Desperate is oral sex in a bathroom stall 15 minutes after meeting. Approachable is taking an interest without taking your clothes off. When you see a man who catches your eye, ask yourself, "Is this man as interesting as he is attractive?" Then talk to him. Say what you think (keep it clean). Do what you feel. If you like him, make it clear that you want to talk more. This is letting a man know that it's safe to pursue you. To be pursued, put yourself on an online-dating site. Posting a profile tells men you're single and interested. Also, get set up on dates. Get involved in singles' groups. Do things you love with people who share common interests. Initiate conversation. You don't have to ask men out. You just need to let them know you find them interesting.
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Comment by Sheryl on January 24, 2013 at 4:42pm -
Haha! The first sentence...nice!
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