What do you think about age differences? I'm 20 years old and interested in older guys – 10 years older. It's caused a lot of problems, and people frown upon it. It sucks! I like these guys, but it's so hard to connect with them. Any advice?
– Thing for Older Men
Dear Older Men:
Older men can be more stable, confident and capable of manipulating you. At least that's what other people think. The younger the woman, the more age matters. When it stops mattering is when you hit the magical age of 25. For some reason, this seems to be when women stop putting up with garbage and realize being treated like crap isn't cute. Once a woman is in her mid-20s, she has her own interests, independence and sense of self. And that's when age stops mattering as much. Try to date a man closer to your age. Put yourself in rooms with men who are leaders, thinkers and doers. If you can't find a good man in the next five years, everyone will be older, and age will no longer matter.
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