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All Blog Posts Tagged 'dating' (263)

NAKED ADVICE: Once a cheater, not always a cheater

Dear Harlan:

I used to cheat on a boyfriend I had from high school to freshman year of college. I ended it. I'm now in an amazing relationship and couldn't even imagine cheating on my boyfriend. Do you believe in "once a cheater, always a cheater"? My mom always says that.…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 14, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Keeping the Door Open for Uninterested Love

Dear Harlan:

I've been working together with this guy for about a year. After a summer apart, we started to go on a few "dates." He even made me dinner at his apartment several times. I became kind of hopeful we could be a couple and asked if he wanted to take our friendship to a higher level. He said "no" and that he's not…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 11, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Fear of being alone should not be the reason to stay in a relationship

Dear Harlan:

I like my boyfriend, but I don't really like his family. They are nice people, but not educated. He is the only one out of his parents' 10 children who goes to college. His four sisters are single moms with many kids. They do housekeeping or work as cashiers. His brothers are cooks. We live together now, with…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 8, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Rejection isn't an end, it's a new beginning

Dear Harlan:

When it comes to females, I have always been easily intimidated by them. I work for a well-known university in California delivering stuff around the campus. About two weeks ago, I decided to hand a letter to a staff member to whom I have delivered packages. In the letter I explained that I don’t talk to her…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 7, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Mixed signals could lead to answers, don't analyze what he's thinking, focus on what you're thinking

Dear Harlan:

I really like this guy, but I am not sure if he likes me or finds me attractive. I walked up to him at a party last weekend and told him that I think he's cute. He said: "Thank you. You look nice." I said "Thank you." Then I walked away. The following Monday,…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 1, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: When it comes to nicknames, boyfriend spreads too much sunshine

Dear Harlan:

I have a question regarding my boyfriend’s behavior. We don’t see each other all week, and we talk on the phone a lot. He would always call me during the week and call me his “sunshine” and other sweet names. The other day I heard him call one of his co-workers his “sunshine” on the phone. He has talked to…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 27, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: A one-night stand is not the best way to start a serious relationship

Dear Harlan:

Can a serious relationship be started with a one-night stand? I recently had one and want it to be more. Does it have a chance?

- One Nighter…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 26, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: When faced with a fundamental flaw, abandon relationship before it tumbles

Dear Harlan:

I have been with my college boyfriend for two years now. Everything is perfect; I couldn’t ask for anyone better. We have talked about getting married in the future, and we both feel that we could spend the rest of our lives together. There is just one problem: We are of different religions. We both feel…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 20, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: You can only trust that liars can't be trusted

Dear Harlan:

I have been dating a wonderful guy. He gave me the impression that he was smart, accomplished, cultured and honest. We both attended college together until I transferred. He also said he had a great job working for the university.…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 13, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Newly gay man needs help fine-tuning his Gay-dar

Dear Harlan:

I recently came out to my friends and family. Now, I'm ready to start dating. My biggest problem is finding the right way to approach someone. How can I approach a guy without making him uncomfortable?…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 10, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Moral dilemmas of religion, cohabitation and sex

Dear Harlan:

In May, it will be four years that my boyfriend and I have been together. Whenever we talk about marriage, we argue. He is American, comes from a divorced family and has lived on his own. I’m from a Latin family with different values and live at home with my parents. My boyfriend wants us to live together…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 7, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Serial monogamist needs to clean house

Dear Harlan:

I live with my boyfriend, but I’m not getting along with him. I have supported him financially for two years, and yet he is unable to provide what I need: emotional support. No matter how much we talk, I can’t make him see it. To complicate issues, I have started to have feelings for my best friend. I think he…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 6, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Single 20-something needs to start being vulnerable

Dear Harlan:

I have had two boyfriends who could have led to marriage, but my gut told me neither was "the one." I often have doubts that this was the right decision as I come home alone each weekend from being out at bars. I am confident that the right one is out there, but where?…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 28, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Nice jerk fears lifetime of selfishly using women

Dear Harlan:

I have a split identity when relating to women. I want to be the perfect nice guy, but lately, I’m torn. This past year, I was dating two girls at once. Both were beautiful and motivated, and I decided not to choose. One moved away, and the other relationship fizzled out after five months. Now I’m seeing a…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 25, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: URT (Universal Rejection Truth) applies the same to LGBT & heterosexuals

Dear Harlan:

I've never been good at approaching people. I find it's especially hard for me because I'm gay. How do I share my feelings with someone if I'm unsure if that person is straight or gay? I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable if the person I'm approaching isn't gay. Any advice?…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 20, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED LOVE STORIES: Who says that love doesn't deliver?

Dear Harlan:

Last year, you wrote about taking a risk and taking a chance on love. Well, here’s my story: I was a pizza-delivery driver and I started getting a couple regulars. There is an Air Force base where I went to deliver pizzas. One day after delivering a pizza to the base, I got stuck at the traffic light leading…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 14, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Ex's depression is no longer boyfriend's burden

Dear Harlan:

My ex has bad depression. We had a hard breakup, and it took a long time for me to move on. We still are friends and continue to stay in touch.

I'm conflicted because I found someone I'd like to get to know better, but I feel…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 12, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Life is short, take advantage of the time you have

Dear Harlan:

There's this guy I kind of like, but not enough to make a move. The problem is that we are both second-semester seniors, and I feel like it's almost not worth it to pursue. What should I do?

-…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 11, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: It takes two to play stupid dating games

Dear Harlan:

Why do guys have to be so stupid? Why can’t guys just say what they want instead of playing all these stupid games? My problem is that I really like this guy, and he sends me signals that he likes me too. But he hasn’t made a move to tell me if we are together or if he just wants to get into my pants. His…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 6, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Lawyer who courts cop is reluctant to try dating

Dear Harlan:

I've gotten out there, handed out my card to men, and have found that rejection is truly painless now that I've accepted the Universal Rejection Truth. Now that one of the guys I gave my card to has started texting me, I'm a little scared. He's a bailiff, and everyone says not to date a cop because they have…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 4, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

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