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serendipity

when you least expect it, it will happen.what is IT?love.i met him. Have patience friends! See More
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9 months man sober

There should be a 12 step program for people like me. Against all odds I have been single for over…See More
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safety in numbers

That was fast, it doesn't too long before true colors shine through.Twenty percent it was what he…See More
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Sheryl replied to Steve Henry's discussion Sadness
"you are definitely ready. taking the risk of asking her means your ready for the possibility of…"
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the risk challenge

the last blog entry was about feeling idle and going nowhere fast. Harlan suggested i pick one…See More
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idle

Almost been a year since my last blog entry, I haven't been on a date since last March…See More
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NAKED ADVICE: Gaming boyfriend would rather play with dragons than hot girlfriend

Dear Harlan:

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We clicked immediately and moved in together after about three months. I knew he liked video games and Dungeons and Dragons, and I like them too, but his involvement with them has gotten to the point where that’s all he really does unless he “makes time” to…

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NAKED ADVICE: Rejection isn't an end, it's a new beginning

Dear Harlan:

When it comes to females, I have always been easily intimidated by them. I work for a well-known university in California delivering stuff around the campus. About two weeks ago, I decided to hand a letter to a staff member to whom I have delivered packages. In the letter I explained that I don’t talk to her…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 7, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: When faced with a fundamental flaw, abandon relationship before it tumbles

Dear Harlan:

I have been with my college boyfriend for two years now. Everything is perfect; I couldn’t ask for anyone better. We have talked about getting married in the future, and we both feel that we could spend the rest of our lives together. There is just one problem: We are of different religions. We both feel…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 20, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: You can only trust that liars can't be trusted

Dear Harlan:

I have been dating a wonderful guy. He gave me the impression that he was smart, accomplished, cultured and honest. We both attended college together until I transferred. He also said he had a great job working for the university.…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 13, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Moral dilemmas of religion, cohabitation and sex

Dear Harlan:

In May, it will be four years that my boyfriend and I have been together. Whenever we talk about marriage, we argue. He is American, comes from a divorced family and has lived on his own. I’m from a Latin family with different values and live at home with my parents. My boyfriend wants us to live together…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 7, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Nice jerk fears lifetime of selfishly using women

Dear Harlan:

I have a split identity when relating to women. I want to be the perfect nice guy, but lately, I’m torn. This past year, I was dating two girls at once. Both were beautiful and motivated, and I decided not to choose. One moved away, and the other relationship fizzled out after five months. Now I’m seeing a…

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Added by Naked Editor on February 25, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: People who love themselves don't stay in bad relationships

Dear Harlan:

I dated a guy for three years in high school. He followed me to college. Long story short, I was the typical "my life revolves around you and only you" person. I know it was a big mistake, but back then I was happy and content. He must not have felt the same way, because he broke up with me about 11 months ago.…

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Added by Naked Editor on January 23, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Jealous guy needs to stop worrying that everyone is better and be his best

Dear Harlan:

I am a 25-year-old guy. My problem is me. I haven’t been able to deal with my jealousy, and it has already led to a failed relationship before. Now I’m in another relationship, and the same problems are resurfacing. I get intensely jealous and possessive if another guy tries to get close to my girlfriend. I…

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Added by Naked Editor on January 22, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Girl is head over heels for a guy who likes men

Dear Harlan:

It seems that sometimes life takes you for a twist and you have to deal with it even though it is painful. I managed to fall in love with a gay man. My heart flips when I look at him, but it cannot go anywhere. To be with him, I have remained friends with him. My emotions are up and down because I want more,…

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Added by Naked Editor on January 16, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Winning back boyfriend is a losing proposition for insecure girlfriend

Dear Harlan:

I’m apparently very insecure about my relationship with my boyfriend. I keep having thoughts that he’s cheating on me. I know he never would, physically, but he does have a lot of female friends who he never mentions. We’ve been together now for almost two years, but about six months ago, I went through his…

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Added by Naked Editor on January 6, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Boyfriend takes break before taking the plunge

Dear Harlan:

My boyfriend and I used to be so in love. Then he said he wanted to take a break before he marries me. He’s now seeing other people. I feel so hurt and confused. If he really loves me, why would he need to date other girls?  I think it’s very irresponsible and cruel, to both me and the other girls. When you…

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Added by Naked Editor on January 2, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Open relationship is grand opening for trouble

Dear Harlan:

I’ve been dating this guy for almost three years. In July, at my request, we tried having an open relationship. I never did anything with anyone, but about two months ago he fooled around with someone. About a month ago, our relationship turned sour, and I wanted to put the open relationship on the back burner…

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Added by Naked Editor on November 12, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Internet beau dropped like a bad habit & now wonders why

Dear Harlan:

I met a girl on the Internet and we clicked immediately. We never officially dated, but we got very flirty, talked a ton and were sexual as well. It was as if we were in a relationship. We talked about how we were perfect for each other, aside from the fact that we lived on opposite sides of the country. We…

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Added by Naked Editor on October 30, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Small-chested woman has a big problem with boyfriend

Dear Harlan:

Men and women have told me that it’s so cute to not have a big chest like some other girls have. They also say that it’s much better because my breasts will always be in the right place as I get older. Some guys have even told me that the way I move is younger and more lively than most girls, thanks to the…

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Added by Naked Editor on October 16, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Boyfriend refuses to remove his online profile

 Dear Harlan:

I met a man late last fall via an online dating service. Over time, the relationship turned intimate. When this happened, I let him know that if we were to continue in an intimate relationship, both of us should resign from the dating service. He waffled and said that he wanted to stay on because he and a…

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Added by Naked Editor on October 7, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Guy wants to know what girls are looking for

Dear Harlan:

What exactly do girls look for in a guy? Do they all just concentrate on looks, or do they value personality and intelligence? Which one is more important?

–Looking for a…

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Added by Naked Editor on October 4, 2013 at 9:00am — 1 Comment

NAKED ADVICE: Until she can learn to walk, crutch of a relationship won't go away

Dear Harlan:

I can’t seem to get up enough courage to break up with my boyfriend of two years. We’ve had our ups and downs; he even cheated on me about a month ago. We made a promise to each other to keep trying as long as progress is being made. And I can’t lie, things are a bit better, but I just catch myself being bored…

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Added by Naked Editor on October 1, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Boyfriend gets a little too excited for football season

Dear Harlan:

My significant other is really into sports and loves to watch games on TV. This is fine with me, because it gives me a chance to do things that interest me. At times, I will walk into the room and find him masturbating while clicking on different channels on TV. I told him that I find this behavior offensive,…

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Added by Naked Editor on September 19, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Neglected girlfriend resists discarding 2-year relationship

Dear Harlan:

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We started dating in high school, and he's in his first year of college, while I'm wrapping up school to move on to university. He's struggled with depression for years, and consistently comes to me for consolation. During the past three weeks, pressure from…

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Added by Naked Editor on August 26, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Snubbed, single 30-something wants to be approached, but no one is approaching

Dear Harlan:

I have a complaint. I am a 31-year-old single woman, and I will never understand the stupidity of asking a man out.  Men will approach women if they are interested in hooking up with them, and that is it. Women and men are just wasting their time if they go through with this. I lived next door to this man who…

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Added by Naked Editor on July 31, 2013 at 9:00am — 1 Comment

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