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serendipity

when you least expect it, it will happen.what is IT?love.i met him. Have patience friends! See More
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9 months man sober

There should be a 12 step program for people like me. Against all odds I have been single for over…See More
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safety in numbers

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the risk challenge

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idle

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All Blog Posts Tagged 'Dating' (36)

NAKED ADVICE: Long-distance dating can be stable, but only with stable partners

Dear Harlan:

Any tips for moving on from a year-and-a-half-long college relationship? My girlfriend ended it because the distance between us over breaks was too much. Also, we both will be graduating next year, but there is no guarantee we'll end up in the same city or even remotely close to each other. I…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 28, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Internet beau dropped like a bad habit & now wonders why

Dear Harlan:

I met a girl on the Internet and we clicked immediately. We never officially dated, but we got very flirty, talked a ton and were sexual as well. It was as if we were in a relationship. We talked about how we were perfect for each other, aside from the fact that we lived on opposite sides of the country. We…

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Added by Naked Editor on October 30, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Guy wants to know what girls are looking for

Dear Harlan:

What exactly do girls look for in a guy? Do they all just concentrate on looks, or do they value personality and intelligence? Which one is more important?

–Looking for a…

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Added by Naked Editor on October 4, 2013 at 9:00am — 1 Comment

NAKED ADVICE: Neglected girlfriend resists discarding 2-year relationship

Dear Harlan:

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We started dating in high school, and he's in his first year of college, while I'm wrapping up school to move on to university. He's struggled with depression for years, and consistently comes to me for consolation. During the past three weeks, pressure from…

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Added by Naked Editor on August 26, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Men who don’t or won’t hear ‘no’ are no friends to women

Dear Harlan:

A guy I'm friendly with has been hitting on me a lot. Lately, his attempts to win me over have been borderline creepy. How do I let him know this? I'd like to be friends with him, but I don't want to come off as sounding like a jerk. Is there a nice way to do…

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Added by Naked Editor on May 28, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Kissed Coed is Hung Up on Hook Up

Dear Harlan:

I met this guy last year toward the end of the semester. We had dinner and then we went home for the summer. When we got back to school, our hanging out continued. We met up at a party and he kissed me. The next week he took me out on a date. Soon we met up at a party, and I slept at his place (no sex, not without commitment). Since that date he has…

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Added by Naked Editor on May 17, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: The good guys are too shy and the bad guys are too cocky

Dear Harlan:

Why are some guys becoming shy, while others are overly cocky? The good guys are too quiet, and the cocky ones are too busy talking a big game. How can I find one of the good ones?…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 8, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

ATTN WOMEN: MAKE IT EASY FOR MEN TO DATE YOU (BUT DON’T BE EASY)

ATTN WOMEN:

MAKE IT EASY FOR MEN TO DATE YOU (BUT DON’T BE EASY)

By @HarlanCohen

Women, it’s time to whip out your ovaries.

I don’t mean to literally whip them out (not sure how you’d do that).  It’s a metaphor.  Right now there are thousands of men who want to date you, but…

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Added by Harlan Cohen on February 4, 2013 at 12:00pm — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Model doesn't know why she got rejected

Hi Harlan:

I'm getting over a recent breakup. We were dating for a year and half, and he was a year younger than me. This is my first year away at school, and he decided one day to tell me that this is done and he had fallen out of love with me. Just like that. I definitely don't think that I'm unattractive. I'm a signed…

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Added by Naked Editor on January 11, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Dating a cheater means getting cheated on

Dear Harlan:

I'm a freshman at college this year and I recently got involved with a guy who also is a freshman. We have a lot in common, we get along great, and I think I've fallen in love with him. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend back home, whom he claims to be "madly in love" with. He's…

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Added by Naked Editor on January 4, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: There are ways to hold a man's interest without having sex

Dear Harlan:

How do you keep a guy interested when you're not planning to have sex? I don't want to have sex with him because that has ruined other relationships and friendships in the past. Any suggestions on how to move slowly?…

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Added by Naked Editor on January 2, 2013 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: New Year's date doesn't get lucky and gets quiet

Hi Harlan:

I met "P" at my best friend's wedding. I'm 26, and he is 37. He called after the wedding, and we started dating and doing fun things together. I wanted to go to a New Year's party – dinner, hear a band – that happened to be held at a major hotel downtown. It was great except for the guy I was with! He got very…

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Added by Naked Editor on December 26, 2012 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Women like attention, not games

Dear Harlan:

I met a girl through some friends and we had a great conversation. She gave me her number. I want to call, but don't know how long I should wait to call or text a girl after I get her number. I don't want to get in touch too soon, but I don't want to wait too long. What's the right amount of time?…

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Added by Naked Editor on December 17, 2012 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Black Girl Doesn't Know How to Approach White Men

Dear Harlan:

I'm interested in dating white men and have some questions. How does a black girl approach a white guy? What if he's not interested in me? How do you feel about interracial dating?

–Looking for…

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Added by Naked Editor on December 7, 2012 at 9:00am — 2 Comments

The Government Does Not Want Me to go on a Date with Taylor Swift

It has now been one week since President Obama has been re-elected. Like him or not, we have another four years with him. Some people in states such as Texas, have started petitions through http://www.whitehouse.gov/ to secede from the Union. Other states have followed. So I figure, "Hey I voted. I am an upstanding citizen. I believe in Democracy. Why don't I get it to work for me?" So earlier this afternoon, I created a petition on whitehouse.gov…

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Added by Dan H on November 14, 2012 at 7:54pm — No Comments

GETTING NAKED EXERCISE: Rejection Mind Games

Welcome to the weekend!

Given that it's Friday, I wanted to serve up a little NAKED exercise to help you have a little fun with The Universal Rejection Truth of Dating and Relationships this weekend. 

INSTRUCTIONS:

Go out with a friend or two or three (people who are in your corner) and play a little game. Tell these friends about the game before playing it.  Pick a spot where there will be lots of people (a restaurant, bookstore, bar, party, show, etc).  Locate the most…

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Added by Harlan Cohen on October 26, 2012 at 2:30pm — 2 Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Reader wants to know if she is a ho

Dear Harlan:

I’m wondering if I’m a slut, hoe, whore or whatever you call it. I slept with two friends. Neither of them was my boyfriend.

–Possible Hoe…

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Added by Naked Editor on June 8, 2012 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Cheating ex-boyfriend becomes girl's new friend with benefits

Dear Harlan:

Is it wrong to still be "friends" and occasionally hook up with my ex-boyfriend of two years who cheated on me? So many people cheat. And I can't seem to let go. I know I love him, or am I just justifying myself? Help!…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 4, 2012 at 8:59am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Girl resents ex for not being honest with her

Dear Harlan:

One week, my boyfriend of four months was telling me he loves me and planning our vacation, and the next, he was saying he was overwhelmed with life stressors and needed to be alone. Not long afterward, a friend who's online dating showed me a guy's profile, and guess whose it was! I want to scream at him,…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 31, 2012 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Girl wonders why her relationship has lost it's spark

Dear Harlan:

If you are dating someone for more than a year, does time change the dynamics of the relationship for better, or for worse? I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year, and I notice that things are changing. It's not that it's changing for the worse "“ the relationship seems to have become…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 28, 2012 at 9:40am — No Comments

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