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NAKED ADVICE: Obsessing about ex is never about the ex

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NAKED ADVICE: Keeping the Door Open for Uninterested Love

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NAKED ADVICE: Obsessing about ex is never about the ex

Dear Harlan:

Last summer, I fell in love. I met a guy through an online dating site called Coffee Meets Bagel, which connects college students via mutual Facebook friends.

Before this I had never dated a guy, kissed a guy or even had the…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 21, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Long time childhood friend turns into new crush

Dear Harlan:

I have a good friend whom I've known since kindergarten. I'm 18 now and in college. I share an apartment with two other friends while we attend New York University. Let's call the friend mentioned in the first sentence "Friend A." She also attends NYU. We have so much in common, from being left-handed and green-eyed to…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 17, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Breaking up in same apartment leaves little room for confusion

Dear Harlan:

My girlfriend of 4 1/2 years and I recently discussed our future and decided that we are going to be living too far apart from each other to stay together. The problem is, we still are living in an apartment, and she still acts as though we are exclusive and doesn't give me much space.…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 16, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Math love is divided by shy girl's insecurities

Dear Harlan:

I'm the girl who is always shy. Today, I met a cute boy in the math-tutoring center. He noticed me, and I noticed him too, but we did not talk at all. I feel like he is the one. I should have talked to him, but I couldn't say anything because of nervousness. I'm so sorry about myself. I've been thinking about…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 15, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Once a cheater, not always a cheater

Dear Harlan:

I used to cheat on a boyfriend I had from high school to freshman year of college. I ended it. I'm now in an amazing relationship and couldn't even imagine cheating on my boyfriend. Do you believe in "once a cheater, always a cheater"? My mom always says that.…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 14, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Keeping the Door Open for Uninterested Love

Dear Harlan:

I've been working together with this guy for about a year. After a summer apart, we started to go on a few "dates." He even made me dinner at his apartment several times. I became kind of hopeful we could be a couple and asked if he wanted to take our friendship to a higher level. He said "no" and that he's not…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 11, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Rejection has beat this man to a pulp, time for a break

Dear Harlan:

Every time I ask a great girl out, there is something going on in her life that would make the relationship complicated. It's gotten to the point where I'm too depressed to ask people out anymore.  Should I stop trying, or should I try again if another possibility arises? I'm not sure I can handle another…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 10, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: To keep Ex at bay, must set firm boundaries

Dear Harlan:

My ex and I had a difficult breakup over a year ago. It took me a long time to get over it, but he continues to try to be a part of my life. I've tried to stay away, but he keeps insisting on being involved in my life. How do I deal with an ex who wants to be part of my life but has a girlfriend?…

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NAKED ADVICE: Fear of being alone should not be the reason to stay in a relationship

Dear Harlan:

I like my boyfriend, but I don't really like his family. They are nice people, but not educated. He is the only one out of his parents' 10 children who goes to college. His four sisters are single moms with many kids. They do housekeeping or work as cashiers. His brothers are cooks. We live together now, with…

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NAKED ADVICE: Rejection isn't an end, it's a new beginning

Dear Harlan:

When it comes to females, I have always been easily intimidated by them. I work for a well-known university in California delivering stuff around the campus. About two weeks ago, I decided to hand a letter to a staff member to whom I have delivered packages. In the letter I explained that I don’t talk to her…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 7, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED LOVE STORIES: High School friends become lovers

Hiya, Harlan:

We were freshmen in high school when we became friends. I fell in love with her. Rather than risk losing that friendship, I kept quiet. We remained friends, but that was about it.

After a few years of drifting apart, I got a…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 3, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Love isn't about emptiness

Hi Harlan:

I am an 86-years-young woman. I read your column in the St. Paul Pioneer Press in order to stay in tune with what young people think these days. Your advice on "Love is about what you have to give, not what you want to get" was wonderful. Bravo! I know that the…

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Added by Naked Editor on April 2, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Mixed signals could lead to answers, don't analyze what he's thinking, focus on what you're thinking

Dear Harlan:

I really like this guy, but I am not sure if he likes me or finds me attractive. I walked up to him at a party last weekend and told him that I think he's cute. He said: "Thank you. You look nice." I said "Thank you." Then I walked away. The following Monday,…

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NAKED ADVICE: Boyfriend’s body hair no longer cute and cuddly

Dear Harlan:

My boyfriend is incredibly hairy on his chest and back. At first, it didn't bother me. It's now starting to turn me off sexually. What am I supposed to do? I don't know how to sensitively bring this up to him.…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 31, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Long-distance dating can be stable, but only with stable partners

Dear Harlan:

Any tips for moving on from a year-and-a-half-long college relationship? My girlfriend ended it because the distance between us over breaks was too much. Also, we both will be graduating next year, but there is no guarantee we'll end up in the same city or even remotely close to each other. I…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 28, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: When it comes to nicknames, boyfriend spreads too much sunshine

Dear Harlan:

I have a question regarding my boyfriend’s behavior. We don’t see each other all week, and we talk on the phone a lot. He would always call me during the week and call me his “sunshine” and other sweet names. The other day I heard him call one of his co-workers his “sunshine” on the phone. He has talked to…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 27, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: A one-night stand is not the best way to start a serious relationship

Dear Harlan:

Can a serious relationship be started with a one-night stand? I recently had one and want it to be more. Does it have a chance?

- One Nighter…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 26, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Text, run and hide is not the way to tell someone you like them

Dear Harlan:

There's a guy I would like to get to know better. It's not my nature to approach men, but I've considered telling him how I feel via text. I don't see him on a regular basis, but I do have his number. Is it acceptable to text a man to let him know about my…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 25, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Hooking up is one way to cover up pain of past

Dear Harlan:

I broke up with my boyfriend of two years a year ago. I've been having a hard time getting over him. Lately, I've been hooking up with three different guys -- no sex, just making out. I'm having a hard time deciding which one to date. I'm afraid if I pick one, I'll have second thoughts. I like them all. Any…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 24, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

NAKED ADVICE: Cleaning up past is brave, but avoiding it makes life messy

Dear Harlan:

I made a conscious decision to avoid relationships until my son was grown. I had the most humiliating and painful experience ever, and I knew I had no one to blame but myself. I concluded that I could not trust myself to do what was best for me and therefore I had no business having any kind of relationship. I…

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Added by Naked Editor on March 21, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

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