I have found that men who are ripped (six pack) always send really provacative photos half naked naked but not show below the belt or worse what gives? why is it that just because you worked hard to get that body you want to show me the whole thing immediately? any thoughts from guys? I'ed love to date a ripped guy but one with a little patients, who believes in getting to know a girl and building up some tension first?! Am I barking up the wrong trees? 

so I've tried a new site active life style work out type site if you know anything about it you can figure it out not sure if we can name site names on here. I have met only one person off the site and I'm only going to do a one month membership because I think it's silly to spend money on trying to meet someone inorganically. I also joined a church group which I think is better because you really get to know people face to face. Any who the one person I met is very funny and charismatic but…

I have a new crush I've made a point to sit next to him in class and chat with him. Making an effort not to be too flirty or foreward and then after three weeks of doing good I am in the elevator with three classmates and he goes to get on and asks if he will fit and I make a fat joke... *epic fail* *forehead smack* foot in the mouth* self defeating erg~! He's not fat but he's not in any shape to jog a couple miles I honestly didn't even notice until he brought it up. I have a freaken crush…

I seem to be having trouble with data connection errors lately every time I think I'm making a connection with someone and I go out on a limb and try to follow up with the connection it turns out I was the only one who felt a connection the other person was just being nice. So I think it's really just time to enjoy being single to stop taking to chances to stop suggesting "hanging out again" or "going for coffee some time" and just let the chips fall where they may or as it where not at all.…