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Where Do Attractive Men Find You?

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A lot of you are VERY hard to meet.  You walk the same route to work, hang out with same people, eat at the same restaurants, go to the same bars, do the same thing week after week, and you get the…Continue

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Week #6 | GETTING NAKED EXERCISE - Week #6 Welcome

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Congratulations! It happened. You took a risk.You found a date, hooked up, or found one of the millions of people who won’t be interested in you. If you found a date or hooked up, you might be…Continue

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At 11:32am on October 24, 2013, Whitney said…
Hi Harlan! Thanks for checking in on me! Nothing new to report. In a bit of a dating slump at the moment. I've gotten into a bit of a rut with my social patterns so I am looking for ideas that might increase my meeting people...Any suggestions? I've looked into a running club (that's one of my favorite hobbies) and considered an improv class(I love comedy, performing and making people laugh). I'm a bit of an introvert so I need activities that might pair me up with people one on one since that is when I'm at my best! My dating seems to come in waves...several all at once then nothing for a month or two...such is the life I suppose. Again any suggestions would be helpful!
At 4:42am on August 19, 2013, Gabby B. said…
I feel I need to tell you my story. I am not accustomed to dating. I was married for 16 years with my husband for 18 years. He passed away a year and a half ago. So needless to say I NEVER dated. I'm not privy to the games people play. When I finally felt ready to get back out there it was confusing to say the least. The games people play were difficult for me to understand. Your book helped me to wade through the bullshit. Take the situation for what it is and stop worrying. Thank you.
At 2:40am on August 19, 2013, Gabby B. said…
Haha! Thank you :-) He's a very nice guy. Feels relaxed and natural.
At 12:35am on August 8, 2013, Gabby B. said…

My next risk? Wait until someone gives me that feeling and try again. I had a perfectly normal first date last night and received the infamous penis pic after. Needless to say I won't be seeing him again. I never thought that would actually happen to me! 

At 1:05am on August 7, 2013, Gabby B. said…

Thank you for writing the book. It has changed my mentality. I have used the advise to approach two individuals I would not have otherwise. Made a very good friend and the other is yet to be determined. I would not have had the courage otherwise.

At 9:42pm on July 26, 2013, Tasha said…

Thank you so much. :)

At 6:42pm on July 7, 2013, Johanny Pineyro said…

just want to say thank you. I just find out the guy I was dating was lying to me. I had the worse 3 days of my life until I remember your book and I remembered how I got the date in the first place. I went back to online dating and life is good again Thanks :) You rock, this is the first dating book that I've read that actually teach stuff that works!

At 5:06pm on May 6, 2013, Elizabeth said…

Hi, Harlan!  I just finished your book (and heard it on audiobook for the second time) and I have to thank you from the bottom of my heart.  I'm telling anyone who will listen to buy it!  I've been divorced for about two years and just starting the dating scene again.  It has been extremely difficult for me because after being with my husband for 17 years and the only man I've been with, I never thought I would find myself "dating" again and I was dreading it completely.  I find your advice extremely helpful, instructional, and encouraging.  Although I'm becoming more comfortable in my thong every day, dating seems a much more fun activity than ever before. Thank you for making my journey easier :o)  So when is your next book coming out?

At 5:09pm on March 14, 2013, Janet A. Kent said…

Hi Harlan-

I just bought 3 of your Getting Naked book, and will no doubt buy more. One is for my therapist and the others are for friends. I think I responded to your book because at the age of 67, I recognize it as close to what I have learned over the years. One small complaint though...I SO wish that there was not a naked couple tangled in sheets on the front cover. I'm a librarian, and I know how much people judge a book by its cover! I know that I bought it, but I kept the cover hidden while reading. :>) In my humble opinion, the photo sends the message that the books is another how to get laid manual. I would have just left the "getting naked" part off. That's why I'm not in sales. I suppose it draws a lot of attention, and the people who are really attracted to that title probably really need to read your book- carefully. Thanks for writing it!

At 1:01am on February 12, 2013, Blair Elizabeth said…

Hi Harlan! nothing exciting to report on at the moment. I'm applying for various internships (like Steppenwolf Theatre in Chicago) and auditioning so that's what I'm focusing on at the moment. What about you?!?!? Hope you and family are doing well:)


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