Ok so I was out to dinner with my grandpa yesterday and there was this waiter. He was really nice and really cute. I kept looking at him and then looking down because when it comes to guys, I'm really shy so I'm working on that. I know it's not actually shyness, it's insecurity. Anyway when we were getting ready to leave, he came to our table.
I found out he goes to the same school I do so I asked him his name, gave him my card with my name on it and told him to find me on Facebook. He hasn't friend requested me yet but instead of worrying about it or beating myself up and thinking I'm crazy or creepy, I'm just proud of myself that I was able to take a risk...even if it was small. Having no regrets is better than thinking "what if." I still think he's really cute though. Maybe we'll see eachother at school? I don't know.... :)
Big victory. Love it. Why don't you find him and friend request him?
Yay!! You go girl! I really like Harlan's go get em attitude I have been fallowing "the rules" and it really leaves a girl high and dry... no calling guys no texting guys have to wait really long time before calling or texting back it does a really good job of driving them away! I'm going to start approaching guys too. I'm going to at least talk to them but not stick around if they want to talk they can come find me I think by modifying these ideas and doing what works for us it's the best choice. There is one guy that I was sort of flirting with and didn't talk to about a week ago and I still think about him. Ah well next time.
Yeah today I talked with this guy as we were waiting in line at Chipotle. He seemed nice and I seriously thought I had seen him last night when I was working so that was my "go to" line. "Hey didn't I see you last night trying on like 5 pairs of shoes?" It wasn't him but it worked. What I like about this situation was that I talked to him then let it flow from there. I thought if he wants to sit and have lunch with me (which he did, he followed me out) then great but if not, I'm going to enjoy my time by myself eating and enjoying the breeze instead of the 100 degree heat from last week. We talked. Not a big deal but just the fact that I'm initiating conversations is something I'm proud of. Let me know how it continues to go for you as well. And btw, I've thought many times "ah well next time." Not the best feeling but as Harlan says, "we have options."